Please Stop Wearing These 3 Things At Any Age

 I typically steer away from making recommendations on what you should wear, but feel strongly that none of us (at any age) need to wear these three things ever again.

Please Stop Wearing These 3 Things

1. Stop wearing the guilt of your past.

                                          

Guilt and regret about the past aren’t serving your present. In fact, because of that guilt, you aren’t fully enjoying your current life. Whether it is guilt about letting go of something in your closet that you spent too much on, or guilt about a past relationship or anything in between, you have paid enough. You’ve paid with your money, time, attention and emotion. You can stop paying now. Let go, apologize, forgive and choose to live free of guilt and regret.

2. Stop wearing the pressure to prove yourself.

                                       

If you have to prove yourself to people you love, that isn’t love. If you struggle to prove yourself at work, maybe you aren’t doing the right work. If you don’t believe me, just stop for a while. Stop pushing and proving and wishing that people would see you the way you think you need to be seen to succeed. Instead, let them see you for you.

Once you stop proving yourself, you can be yourself.

3. Stop wearing the weight of other people’s expectations and judgements.

                                                    

I’m not good or bad or right or wrong because of what anyone else thinks. I can’t control what they think and I’m not going to change myself trying.
It’s a relief to know that I can love you and not care what you think about me at the same time.
When you stop wearing the weight of other people’s expectations and judgements, you’ll be light.
Wearing these things is wearing you down. You can stop now. Please stop.
Wear the clothes you want to wear. Live the life you want live. Be you.